Comments on: Therapy? http://www.livingfordisco.com/2007/08/07/therapy/ Sun, 11 Dec 2011 03:31:33 +0000 hourly 1 By: NLP Zine http://www.livingfordisco.com/2007/08/07/therapy/comment-page-1/#comment-42497 NLP Zine Mon, 20 Jul 2009 21:25:19 +0000 http://www.livingfordisco.com/2007/08/07/therapy/#comment-42497 Great blog. Do you know of any relevant NLP forums or discussion groups? Great blog. Do you know of any relevant NLP forums or discussion groups?

]]> By: Rachie http://www.livingfordisco.com/2007/08/07/therapy/comment-page-1/#comment-8416 Rachie Thu, 09 Aug 2007 13:41:57 +0000 http://www.livingfordisco.com/2007/08/07/therapy/#comment-8416 Hi Robert, I guess I see things a bit differently from Dr Bandler. I like my pshychotherapist. She is very lovely, and has helped me alot. I've told her a great many things, and I think she's just concerned for my wellbeing, and wants to know that I'm still on the up, and on the medication. Hurrah for therapy! Yay! Hi Robert,

I guess I see things a bit differently from Dr Bandler. I like my pshychotherapist. She is very lovely, and has helped me alot. I’ve told her a great many things, and I think she’s just concerned for my wellbeing, and wants to know that I’m still on the up, and on the medication.

Hurrah for therapy! Yay!

]]> By: robert http://www.livingfordisco.com/2007/08/07/therapy/comment-page-1/#comment-8398 robert Wed, 08 Aug 2007 17:27:57 +0000 http://www.livingfordisco.com/2007/08/07/therapy/#comment-8398 Rachie, I had a fantastic teacher - Dr Richard Bandler. Google him. He taught me to write psychotherapist as Psycho The Rapist because he sees them as just that. They strip you mentally. Anyway this is just something to think on when you are on the couch. What has the blind date got to do with anyone except you? Nosy! Maybe jealous? Stay in NAmibia. Namibia needs you more than this foot and mouth infested place! It's getting dark sooner. Colder in the mornings and evenings. Soon it'll be dark at 4pm. Horrid. Stay put. Rachie,

I had a fantastic teacher – Dr Richard Bandler. Google him.

He taught me to write psychotherapist as Psycho The Rapist because he sees them as just that. They strip you mentally.

Anyway this is just something to think on when you are on the couch. What has the blind date got to do with anyone except you? Nosy! Maybe jealous?

Stay in NAmibia. Namibia needs you more than this foot and mouth infested place! It’s getting dark sooner. Colder in the mornings and evenings. Soon it’ll be dark at 4pm. Horrid.

Stay put.

]]> By: Rachie http://www.livingfordisco.com/2007/08/07/therapy/comment-page-1/#comment-8391 Rachie Wed, 08 Aug 2007 10:22:13 +0000 http://www.livingfordisco.com/2007/08/07/therapy/#comment-8391 FtJ, thank you! I hope you're doing ok over in Timor. No fear - it's all exciting! Kathleen, yes, that's true. I am stressed, but not to the point of therapy. No smarties for you! Heather, it will be great! I was the same. It wasn't moving to Namibia that I found scary, it was the thought of coming back, and not know what was next. It seems to be affecting a few of us this way, so I think it's normal. You almost got the prize, I think... LCG - thank you for the compliments! Kermit, thanks. You never know. Ourman, I know! Don't worry - I'm excited about it too. But I still have The Fear. Ph, well, there are plenty of reasons to stay. All exciting ones. The future is an open book though. Who knows what will happen? FtJ, thank you! I hope you’re doing ok over in Timor. No fear – it’s all exciting!

Kathleen, yes, that’s true. I am stressed, but not to the point of therapy. No smarties for you!

Heather, it will be great! I was the same. It wasn’t moving to Namibia that I found scary, it was the thought of coming back, and not know what was next. It seems to be affecting a few of us this way, so I think it’s normal. You almost got the prize, I think…

LCG – thank you for the compliments!

Kermit, thanks. You never know.

Ourman, I know! Don’t worry – I’m excited about it too. But I still have The Fear.

Ph, well, there are plenty of reasons to stay. All exciting ones. The future is an open book though. Who knows what will happen?

]]> By: Ph http://www.livingfordisco.com/2007/08/07/therapy/comment-page-1/#comment-8390 Ph Wed, 08 Aug 2007 08:33:58 +0000 http://www.livingfordisco.com/2007/08/07/therapy/#comment-8390 I know a number of folk who having lived abroad a while have come back to Britain. Almost to a man/woman they have regretted this and many have returned overseas. They all seem to say the same thing, that it is just such damned hard work living in Britain today; hard work with little to show for it. But on the positive side, if you are not happy back home there is no reason to stay. I know a number of folk who having lived abroad a while have come back to Britain. Almost to a man/woman they have regretted this and many have returned overseas.
They all seem to say the same thing, that it is just such damned hard work living in Britain today; hard work with little to show for it.
But on the positive side, if you are not happy back home there is no reason to stay.

]]> By: ourman http://www.livingfordisco.com/2007/08/07/therapy/comment-page-1/#comment-8382 ourman Tue, 07 Aug 2007 20:03:02 +0000 http://www.livingfordisco.com/2007/08/07/therapy/#comment-8382 What if. what if. what if? Bollocks. What can't you deal with after doing what you have done.? I think you're probably worried about it all and that's fair. But it's all an adventure if you make it one. Being home is all new again for me and I am discovering it afresh. You'll be fine too. What if. what if. what if? Bollocks. What can’t you deal with after doing what you have done.?

I think you’re probably worried about it all and that’s fair. But it’s all an adventure if you make it one.

Being home is all new again for me and I am discovering it afresh.

You’ll be fine too.

]]> By: Kermit http://www.livingfordisco.com/2007/08/07/therapy/comment-page-1/#comment-8381 Kermit Tue, 07 Aug 2007 19:15:42 +0000 http://www.livingfordisco.com/2007/08/07/therapy/#comment-8381 If everything (and I really, really hope that it doesn't) turns out grey and all wrong, there's always a place, with some family around, in tropical Queensland. We have bouganvillias too. x If everything (and I really, really hope that it doesn’t) turns out grey and all wrong, there’s always a place, with some family around, in tropical Queensland. We have bouganvillias too.

x

]]> By: la cubana gringa http://www.livingfordisco.com/2007/08/07/therapy/comment-page-1/#comment-8380 la cubana gringa Tue, 07 Aug 2007 17:04:54 +0000 http://www.livingfordisco.com/2007/08/07/therapy/#comment-8380 I vote for one, two and three. And I think a little bit of fear and apprehension about the future is a healthy thing...as long as it isn't inhibitory and paralyzing. I've come to appreciate, through your writing, that you're a strong person entirely capable of coming off the pills and forging ahead to a very bright future...regardless of the path and the timetable! ;) Just remember to give yourself a little credit along the way! I vote for one, two and three. And I think a little bit of fear and apprehension about the future is a healthy thing…as long as it isn’t inhibitory and paralyzing. I’ve come to appreciate, through your writing, that you’re a strong person entirely capable of coming off the pills and forging ahead to a very bright future…regardless of the path and the timetable! ;) Just remember to give yourself a little credit along the way!

]]> By: Heather A. http://www.livingfordisco.com/2007/08/07/therapy/comment-page-1/#comment-8379 Heather A. Tue, 07 Aug 2007 16:14:18 +0000 http://www.livingfordisco.com/2007/08/07/therapy/#comment-8379 I bet you aren't any more scared than I am. I'm about to give up a comfy apartment and a perfectly good job that allows me to sit on my ass all day to live with a host family (!!) in Ecuador for a year while teaching English. Yes, this will be my first attempt at living abroad, and no, I've never taught before (though I do _speak_ English, and kind of a lot, sometimes). I don't bat an eye at the impending diarrhea, the risk of dengue fever, polio, and plague, or the prospect of eating cow hoof soup with blood sprinkles or whatever it is. It's not knowing what will happen after this year that scares me most. I did choose this, so I'm not complaining. But I am a bit apprehensive. Feel free to post any good advice your therapist gives you, after you two have covered that blind date. I bet you aren’t any more scared than I am. I’m about to give up a comfy apartment and a perfectly good job that allows me to sit on my ass all day to live with a host family (!!) in Ecuador for a year while teaching English. Yes, this will be my first attempt at living abroad, and no, I’ve never taught before (though I do _speak_ English, and kind of a lot, sometimes).

I don’t bat an eye at the impending diarrhea, the risk of dengue fever, polio, and plague, or the prospect of eating cow hoof soup with blood sprinkles or whatever it is. It’s not knowing what will happen after this year that scares me most.

I did choose this, so I’m not complaining. But I am a bit apprehensive.

Feel free to post any good advice your therapist gives you, after you two have covered that blind date.

]]> By: Kathleen http://www.livingfordisco.com/2007/08/07/therapy/comment-page-1/#comment-8378 Kathleen Tue, 07 Aug 2007 15:28:22 +0000 http://www.livingfordisco.com/2007/08/07/therapy/#comment-8378 I would say all three, I'm sure you are apprehensive about moving back home, changing jobs and moving are the two highest streesers out there throw in a relationship...voila! Stress! I would say all three, I’m sure you are apprehensive about moving back home, changing jobs and moving are the two highest streesers out there throw in a relationship…voila! Stress!

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